You can attest to the fact that I kept going back and forth. I obviously decided to go with no date and only the monogram as you can see above. This was the best decision. We have many leftover, and they are perfectly classy to bring out when we have guests (or just for us). Think multipurpose instead of one time, choose no date. Your guests know what day it is, and you surely wont soon forget it.
P.S. A year of planning served as a year of learning, I'm much improved in the decision making department... Just go with your gut!